Misplaced fear

Mindful motivation about evolving

It is not our work to say no to ourselves. What we need to do is explore options and do our best. We need to value ourselves and our work. And every time when we step up, we will get taken a bit more seriously. We evolve.

Why say no to ourselves?
Sometimes by not even trying!?
Is misplaced fear holding us back?
Are we afraid that they won’t be interested?
We owe it to ourselves to let THEM say yes or no.
Getting a no helps us to narrow it down.
Narrowing it down leads to a resounding yes!


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